Peter your Christian. Can I ask you a question personally? Is it against Christianity to marry another race and if your parents do not agree with the person that you're with is that a sin because it violates one of the 10 commandments? I not as religious as I should be but maybe someone with your faith can fill me in... thanks in advance.. PaulPaul- I love honesty in questions. The first one is a yes, you can ask.
Secondly, no, it is not a sin to marry another race, or a person from another race. You probably are thinking of the Old Testament, when Israelites were forbidden to marry non-Israelites. This was for religious reasons, as the “Gentiles” did not follow the Mosaic law and worshiped other gods. As New Testament Christians, we are not to marry outside of the faith, but the faith is open to anyone from any race in any nation. So a white from America can marry a black from Africa, as long as the two are believers.
Now, if the parents oppose the marriage, the couple should refrain until something can be worked out. I have known couples that waited, and the parents changed their minds. It is always good to honor the parents. However, if the reason the parents oppose is not based on Christian principles, then there ate allowances for the couple to marry. But there is no set rule. Many variances in Christian practice are cultural or societal. What we do in the US may be something an African or Chinese Christian would not do, and vice versa. And by the same token, I know of some Americans who would frown on interracial marriages because of where they live.
Anyone else have some thoughts on this?